October 3, 2010
A friend of mine introduced me to the idea of wearing a divorce ring, which I liked right off the bat. But then I thought that it might send unwanted messages to men about my reasons to wear it, if you know what I mean… Should I be worried about this?!
October 4, 2010
There is no two ways about it: wearing a divorce ring is a great way of saying that you're single and on the market again. And anyway, I can't seem to understand why wouldn’t you want guys to think that you're "open for business", as you so bluntly put it?! Is it such a bad thing opening yourself up and wanting to meet people after your divorce? FYI, some say that getting to know new people is the ultimate solution to help you get over your ex husband and failed divorce. I really don't know what your intensions of wearing a divorce ring are, but you honestly shouldn’t be worried about sending unwanted messages. The secret of a divorce rings is just to wear them proud because you have nothing to hide.
October 3, 2010
The way I see it, wearing a divorce ring is no different than not wearing a ring at all. I mean, does a young lady who was never married before send unwanted messages to strangers? Just based on the fact that she is not wearing a wedding ring on her finger doesn't mean that she's "open for business". Sure, men who will be interested might feel more confident to approach her and spark up a conversation because they see that she's single, but that's all there is to it. In the same way, if a guy spots a divorce ring on your finger (assuming of course that he's clever enough to know what it is) he might feel more lenient to start chatting with you. So to answer your question, NO - I don't think wearing a divorce ring will send inappropriate messages at all!